ALL cis people—every single one—are transphobic, passively if not actively so.
You have been born into a society that caters to you. You have been raised to believe in the gender binary & assigned genders. You have internalized some degree of transphobia as a result.
I know it’s infinitely easier to just claim “I’m not transphobic!!” & go on with your day without critically examining yourself, but that leads to a stagnant society & continued discrimination against my communities.
So I’m gonna need you to stop crying about being asked to confront your own internalized -isms & start doing something about it for fuck’s saaaake.